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Sunday, May 25, 2014

The Wimpification of America

*****IMPORTANT NOTE***** (added April 21, 2021)

When I wrote this blog originally, I did so with the intent of doing my research. My belief at the time was that with the research I'd done, that the name and mascot were decided/given with consent from and in approval of Native Americans. I do admit, that while I personally may feel that a sports team is a thing of pride and celebration, it's not my place to decide what's acceptable to another group of persons which whom I am not a "member" of. I don't like when men try to tell me how I should think and feel about something as a woman, so it's not my place to tell Native American persons or anyone else whether or not they should be offended by a sports team name, or mascot, or anything of the sort. I've came to this conclusion ages ago, just haven't updated this blog post in making this clear. Even though I made a decent effort back then to research things before opening my mouth, I've gotten much better at doing better research and analyzing and breaking things down than I was then.

I think for the time being I will leave the original blog in its original published form below without edits. I think it is important for us all as people to be able to own our past and present, and keep ourselves open to being able to grow and evolve as people over time. Even though I know personally that I never in my life would ever intend at all to be hateful or hurtful to another person and that deep down inside I suppose I'm a hippie who just wants everyone to be able to get along, love one another (not in that way you perv! Ok I'll see myself out haha), respect one another, and hug everyone I greet, that doesn't mean that I'm immune to ever saying anything that could be hurtful to another. Even if that's never anything I'd ever want to do, we all have different journeys, different life experiences, and you never know what another's story is unless you talk and share, right?

*****END IMPORTANT NOTE*****

Ok so I borrowed the idea for that title from someone else, but it fits.  I was also going to write about this before, but I either got distracted or figured I'd just let it pass.  I should have thought better, it hasn't passed.  What I'm talking about is this big hoopla about the "offensiveness" of the team name for the Washington Redskins, and the wimpification of America. (I was going to use the title with pussification instead of wimpification, but I'm attempting to keep the swearing at a minimum heh.)

As some of you know I'm a Redskins fan.  We may not have done too well last season but I bleed burgundy and gold. What prompted me today was the letter written from owner / president Bruce Allen directed to Senator Harry Reid. In this letter, Mr. Allen addresses the senator and states how Senator Reid must not really have been provided "all of the pertinent facts and true history of the Washington Redskins." The Redskins have been around for over 81 years, have played in 11 NFL Championship games and have won five World Championships.  There is quite a bit of information in the letter attesting to not only the history of the sports team, how the name came about, how the logo was designed and approved by Native American leaders, a poll which reports that the majority of Native Americans do not find the name offensive, how the Washington Redskins Original Americans Foundation provides resources and opportunities to those in need (including over one thousand tablet computers which were distributed to Native American students, amongst other things), and a wealth of other interesting information.

What I find to be interesting is the fact that no one has brought up how the name was "offensive" over the course of 81 years... until recently.  It would seem as though a few people woke up one day and were like "Hey! I suddenly find this to be offensive! I didn't yesterday, but something has came to me overnight and made me realize how racist this is and I'm mad RAWR!"

What is wrong with you America?  Why do we continue to allow congress, or other persons in "superior" positions to tell us what does and does not offend us?  Words are words, and the only way they are hurtful is if we give them the power to harm us.  Now, I'm not saying by any means that words said with intent and purpose of being hurtful are ok, because the intent or emotion in how the word(s) were said to carry some importance in certain circumstances if you allow them to.  Why though, are you allowing people to tell you that something is intended with harm, when previously there was no harm intended?  Why are you allowing them to go "Hey, you know, you should really be offended by this!", and why are you then going "Hey you're right!! Why haven't I been offended by this before!  I'm angry now!"  And more importantly, why the hell is this even being a decision congress is considering anyway?  Don't they have more important shit to do than this like, making a budget, doing something about our fucked up economy, getting people back into work, etc?  Shouldn't this be something handled in the league?

And also, are sports teams not something founded on pride?  I can't for the life of me think of a single sports team that was not founded on pride for their team and what they stand for.  Who the heck puts together a sports team and goes "Hey!  I really really freaking hate / despise _______.  Let's call ourselves that!"

Maybe I just don't get it being a white girl.  I wouldn't care if they were the Washington Palefaces, Washington Rednecks, Washington Vaginas, etc. It's not like they're the Washington Savages or the Washington Injuns.  And according to that letter, one of the foremost scholars of Native American languages, a Smithsonian Institution senior linguist Ives Goddard spent several months researching the entire subject and concluded that the world "redskin" originated "as a Native American expression of solidarity by multiple tribal delegations that traveled to Washington to negotiate Native American national policies." (There's more in the letter, read it if you haven't.)  But what I don't also get is why are there no other teams under attack?  What about the Kansas City Chiefs, or the Atlanta Braves, or the Cleveland Indians?  And really, if you're going to attack the Washington Redskins to change their name, you cannot stop just there.  You cannot force one team to change their name, and not go after all of the other "Redskins" across the nation.  There are TONS of elementary, middle and high schools with Native American inspired names and mascots, and countless other things as well.  You cannot force one to change their name and leave the rest alone.  You're offended by all or you're offended by none... period.



And what's next?  Are vikings/descendants of vikings going to start suddenly becoming offended by the Minnesota Vikings?  Are gays suddenly going to realize that the Green Bay Packers could be taken as an offensive term to homosexuals?  Or what about Blacks or Hispanics suddenly finding the Carolina Panthers or the Cleveland Browns to be an offensive team name?  Are religious people suddenly going to become offended by the New Orleans Saints?  Are workers or families or descendants of steel workers going to become offended by the Pittsburgh Steelers?  Are southerners going to suddenly find the Dallas Cowboys to be a negative stereotype on southern persons?  Do you see how ridiculous this is?

My point is, this political correct bullshit is getting out of control.  Yes, no one should intentionally spew forth hatred or callous remarks toward one another.  There is no reason to hate one another based upon where we're from or what color our skin is.  But this is sports people!!  Sports teams are about pride!  Pride for your team!  Pride for your "homeland"! (And by homeland, I mean anything in which you deem to hold meaning in a "homey" type way to you, whether that's your state of residence, state of origin, or your people.)  Do you cheer on something you hate or have no respect for?  Hell no you don't!  You cheer for what you love, what you're proud of, something you stand for... you cheer for positive things!  You probably wouldn't cheer for the Alabama Angry Bees if you were terrified of, deathly allergic to, or hated bees would you?  Ok maybe you'd be a little conflicted if you were proud of your Alabama heritage or something, but still.

Wake up America.  Stop allowing yourself to get so riled up and distracted with hate.  Stop allowing America to become "pussified". We've become a nation who cries and demands everyone else conform because a couple of people allow themselves to get all butt hurt and offended by small shit.  I still stand by the suggestion I've had in a few of my blogs about a Helmet Program of some sort.  I think if I ever hit the lottery I'm really going to look into starting a non-profit organization for handing out helmets to our more "special" citizens.  You know, the ones who want to take everything away from everyone else because every little tiny thing they don't agree with hurts their precious little feelings?  We can even add a level of customization too.  Like, if you want rainbows and butterflies and unicorns and fairies and gumdrops and lollipops on your helmet, you can totally have them.

In God We Trust on our money offends me, I'm an atheist!" Get the fuck over yourself.  I don't care if my money is covered in rainbows and some dude firing a rifle into the air while corn holing a bear and eating kittens while standing on a steaming pile of elephant dung.  It buys me the things I need.  It pays my bills.  I don't care what it looks like.

I think birth control is evil and no one should ever be allowed to have access to it because it's evil and and un-Godlike!   Again, get over yourself please.  Most women I know that take it, don't take it to prevent pregnancy, but to regulate their cycle and alleviate their menstrual symptoms.  No one is forcing you to take it, and just because you don't believe in it, doesn't give you the right to tell other people what they can and cannot do with their own bodies, and does not give you the right to invade your opinion into the private decisions made by a woman and her doctor.  You want me or anyone else to respect your beliefs?? You need to respect my own as well.

Well I find the term "illegal immigrant" offensive!! We should change the name!!  Freaking really?!?! STOP BREAKING THE LAW THEN ASSHOLE!!  It's not an offensive term, it is exactly what it is!!  You're an immigrant, and *gasp* you're here illegally!!!!  (I seriously facepalmed harder than I've ever facepalmed before at that one.)



Ugh I could go on and on.  Please, I beg you people... grow some skin please?  The world is not out to get you.  In fact, most people do not wish any ill will or harm upon you, so stop thinking that everyone is trying to hurt your precious self with every word they mutter.  Stop for a moment, pause, and consider the intent behind the words.  Are they aimed directly at you?  Is this person actually intending to offend or hurt me?  Hint: most of the time they're not, it's just that they *gasp* have a different opinion/belief/feeling than you do.  And hey, just because someone is different, does not mean they're a bad person.  Just because they feel differently than you do, does not mean that they are a bad person.  Stop trying to ruin or take shit away from the rest of us because you're paranoid that anyone different than you is out to get you.  And why is it that the minority (and I'm speaking not in race but in terms of opinions or beliefs) seem to always be the craziest, loudest mofos there are?!?!  How can so few noisy mother fuckers cause so many headaches for the rest of us who just want to live and get along?  Oy vey!

Friday, May 23, 2014

Being Human, Loving and Respecting One Another

I know I've touched on the subject before, and I apologize ahead of time for this being a long entry, but today I read that Pennsylvania became the 19th state to recognize same-sex marriage!!  I'm proud of my home state, but absolutely became infuriated at some of the responses people were leaving in the comments (these are all directly copied from the post on WGAL News Channel 8 Susquehanna Valley, PA.'s Facebook page. This, btw is the link to the Facebook post and the comments, I'm only listing some of them but you can read them all if you like. )

"Moving out of Pennsylvania."  (Don't let the door hit you on the ass on your way out!)

"SO, WE HAVE THE RIGHT AND CHOICE TO MARRY WHO WE LOVE, BECAUSE IT'S LOVE THAT COUNTS... WELL THEN WHEN CAN I MARRY EITHER MY FATHER OR SON, BECAUSE I LOVE THEM AND NOTHING SHOULD COME BETWEEN LOVE... OH BEFORE I FORGET, AND I WANT TO DO IT ASAP BEFORE THEY START CHARGING!!!!!!!!"  (What is this, I don't even...)

"I can accept ppl but I don't have to accept their behavior now do I? Should I accept a pedifile, a person who beats their kids, a rapist?? No, I don't think so"  (Uhhh... HUGE difference between pedophilia, people who beat their kids, rapists and gay people... HUGE difference)

"Now GO get married and help DESTROY the rest of the Country with your perversions. AND PLEASE Shut the hellup NOW !!!"

"Whats next legalizing Beastiality?"   (How does this even remotely compare?  You cannot compare two people in a loving consensual relationship to an animal which is incapable of giving consent)

So uhhh... what exactly is the big deal?  I mean this whole situation seems like deja-vu to me.  It wasn't that insanely long ago that people were disgusted and saying it was an abomination or whatever for blacks and whites to marry or have children.  Granted I wasn't alive when that was going on, but I do recall there being a period of time in this country when it was so.  Sure there's still people who are disgusted by the idea, but for the most part no one gives a shit anymore.  It's no big deal.  This is the same thing!!!  People were disgusted if a black and white person kissed in public, people now are disgusted by a football player kissing his boyfriend after he was picked in the NFL draft.  These same people have no issues with a football player kissing their wife, but if they're gay holy crap!!

"I can't have my children exposed to this abomination!"

Oh really?  So it's ok for two people who love each other who are a man and a woman to show affection, but not two men?  A display of love (I'm not talking about tonsil hockey here folks, there's a time and a place for that) between two consenting people is not ok, just because it's a man and a man, but you'll allow your children to watch violence or play violent video games?

Here's the deal people.  All gay people want is to enjoy the same freedoms you do as a heterosexual person.  As it stands in many states now, they cannot legally marry and have the benefits that it brings.  If their significant other is in a car accident or dying at a hospital, they cannot, regardless if they wish to have their significant other do so, make decisions that the person dying would wish.  They cannot often be allowed into the rooms to be there or comfort their loved ones in such a situation because they're not "family".  They cannot feel safe and secure in that if their loved one passes, the belongings they have collected together through their life stays with them.

With all that being said, what really pisses me off about the entire situation is not that people have their opinions against gay marriage, but because they think that because they feel that way it should not be allowed.  We're all allowed to have our own opinions and feelings about things, what is not right is denying someone else the same freedoms that we enjoy because we don't agree with what they do. I have no issues with people saying they don't agree with gay marriage and believe it is a sin, because they have the right to feel how they do.  It's the super ignorant hypocrites that enrage me to no end.  Especially the ones with the ignorant ass statements I listed above, and some of the others like:

"Letting gays get married ruins the sanctity of marriage"

How so?  Heterosexual people screwed that up ages ago with our lovely 50% divorce rate.  And please explain to me how Joe and John 200 miles away getting married affects you at all?  How does their marriage invalidate or ruin the sanctity of yours?  How does it make your marriage any less meaningful?  Oh right it doesn't.

"It's against God's law!"

To you, yes.  Newsflash commander twat pants, even if Christianity is the most popular religion, if you break it down the majority of the world is not Christian.  Just because you believe it's against God's law doesn't mean it should be against man's law.  No one is forcing your ass to be gay, no one is forcing you into a gay marriage, and it does not directly impact you at all!!  Pull your damn heads out of your ass people.  And some of these people will pick and choose which parts of the Bible, whom they decree is God's law, they think is ok to follow and which are not based solely upon what fits them.  If the Bible is God's law, you need to follow them all and not pick and choose what's convenient for you at the moment. Let's look at some of these things these holy roller people shouldn't be doing but are:

Got your eye on a nice poly/cotton blend jacket?  Guess what? Leviticus 19:19:
“You shall keep my statutes. You shall not let your cattle breed with a different kind. You shall not sow your field with two kinds of seed, nor shall you wear a garment of cloth made of two kinds of material. 

 Shellfish? Leviticus 11:10: But anything in the seas or the rivers that does not have fins and scales, of the swarming creatures in the waters and of the living creatures that are in the waters, is detestable to you.

 Like your steaks rare?  Lev. 17:10: "If any one of the house of Israel or of the strangers who sojourn among them eats any blood, I will set my face against that person who eats blood and will cut him off from among his people. "

Like bacon?  Lev 11:7-8:  "And the pig, because it parts the hoof and is cloven-footed but does not chew the cud, is unclean to you.  You shall not eat any of their flesh, and you shall not touch their carcasses; they are unclean to you. "

Exodus speaks of slavery being ok Exodus 21:1-23:9

Now I do want to say that I am not in any way slamming Christianity.  A lot of my beliefs are Christian in nature, some are not.  I have no issues with those Christians who believe homosexuality is a sin... but I have an issue with those who are hypocrites and would deny a fellow human being the same freedoms they enjoy or treat them badly simply because they believe it's a sin while tossing out there that it's "God's law" so they shouldn't be able to marry (mainly because they're being hypocrites because they're not following all of God's law, as I referenced above).  Those Christians who are like "well I believe it's a sin, but I still love the person, and if they wish to marry they should be able to, they can answer to God later." are fine with me.  They stated their belief without being an ignorant mean twat waffle about it.  I mean after all, Matthew 19:19 says "Honor your father and mother, and, you shall love your neighbor as yourself."  And here is a whole slew of verses in the Bible when it comes to judging.  I kinda like James 4:11-12 "Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor? "

And lastly, I know that it's not all Christians or whatever who are so insanely asinine, hypocritical and evil about these things, but unfortunately they seem to always be the loudest and most obnoxious twat waffles when it comes to these very things.  There are people on the other side of the fence who are gay who take things way too far and point fingers and speak harshly to those who may not believe that being gay is ok, pointing the finger and saying "You're a bigot!" just because someone else believes that being gay is a sin.  There are many people on both sides who take things way too far.  We need to respect one an other's beliefs without resorting to personal attacks just because someone thinks differently than you do.  You have to give respect to earn respect, and if you cannot respect someone else's feelings or opinions, you should not expect anyone else to respect yours, and under no circumstances should a difference in beliefs or opinions prevent any of our citizens to not have the same rights as the rest of us enjoy.  And to anyone who is like "Well they have all these parades and they're all up in our faces and stuff!" I pose to you a question:  How are we supposed to bring about any change without speaking up and having our voices be heard?  Whether it's gay marriage, healthcare, changes in our government, how can you bring about change while sitting on your ass and doing nothing and being silent? Do you think blacks or women gained the right to vote by doing nothing, and that some person in congress one day said "Hey you know what? Maybe we should give blacks and women the right to vote!!"  Nope... don't think so.  Change happens because we speak up and let our voices be heard.



Remember folks, we're all different.  None of us are perfect.  It's our differences and imperfections which make us unique.  Once you start pointing the finger and preaching (not necessarily in a religious sense) to others, you must realize that every time you do point your finger, there's three pointing back at you.  Take a look at yourself before you judge others, and remember that it is NOT your job to judge other people to begin with.  Love one another, respect one another, be kind to one another, and only then should you respect the same in return. And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.